Anonymous asked: Okay so a I really want to join tumblr, it looks likes tons of fun. But a lot of people say it's addicting, and impossible to get off of. School is just around the corner, and I have no intention of failing or getting bad grades. I still really want to join Tumblr. Is it really as addicting, as everyone says it is or is it just like any other website? You go on, have some fun, and then get off and get back to the bussiness that is life. Or is it like impossible to get off? Thanks for reading!
It depends on your personal preference.
Tumblr is a great place to read news, blog funny pictures, and meet people from all around the world.
It can get extremely addicting, but if you’re careful and monitor your personal usage it shouldn’t be a problem.
Anonymous asked: I'm A freshman and I'm failing I have no CLUE what to do!?!?!
Your class work.
For emergency help or counceling, please do not hesitate to visit these sites or call.
Suicide Hotline in the U.S. call: 1-800-273-8255
Anonymous asked: I just applied to a prestigious college program and I am worried that I will not be able to keep up with other students. I don't think I will be able fit in, how can I help myself to fit in?
Keep your head up and don’t try to fit in. Just be yourself. Make sure to stay on top of your work but not so much that it stresses you out. Take a break occasionally so all your assignments don’t run together. Remember, after you graduate you probably won’t see any of these people
Anonymous asked: I have a big problem, I am under constant stress and scrutiny. I feel as if I do one thing wrong my world will come crashing down. How can I deal with my stress?
You need to take a break and not put so much work on your plate. You can look to meditating as a stress relief. Find something that calms and use it. You need take a break from everyone and everything. Not everyone is perfect and we all make mistakes, but don’t let mistakes you make dictate your life.
Anonymous asked: I am gay, but I am not sure how to tell my friends. I am afraid they will judge and resent me. What can I do?
You have to trust that you have a strong enough relationship that being gay won’t affect it. This is sort of a test to who your true friends are. Being gay doesn’t change anything about you, your friends should accept you for who you are. Sit them down and discuss it with them. Tell them that being gay doesn’t change who you are, it’s just just an aspect of your being. Give them time to adjust, and the people who run weren’t true in the first place.
Anonymous asked: I feel like everyone hates me. What's wrong with me.
Nothing is wrong with you, but it’s possible that you aren’t hanging out with people who truly care. You may be in need of friends that support you, regardless of what you do. Stay true to yourself and keep your head up high.
Anonymous asked: This is the person that hasn't had any help yet, and I'm just so scared and confused! I feel as though all my friend's are trying to drift away from me, and I'm feeling very neglected. I am also not getting any "love" at home as well. My dad can be mean occasionally, and whatever. And I also sometimes have the urge to majorly hurt myself, becuase I have recently learned that some people having been calling me crude names behind my back, and I'm a very self concious person! I just want to.. Leave
During our high school years we tend to find out who our true friends are. After we graduate none of the drama, name calling, or any of that stuff will matter. I would consider sitting down with your Father. Try explaining to him how it hurts when he is hard on you. If you think you are going to inflict harm to yourself you should call 1-800-DONT-CUT.
Anonymous Asked: I have this friend, who is a great person and fun to be with! But she’s alway’s down… She’s alway’s saying of how terrible a life she has, and how she’s a terrible person. But I alway’s try to convince that she is a wonderful person with every great aspect of a friend! But, now I can sense that were starting to drift away… And I try to talk to her all the time, but she act’s as though she try’s to resent, or push me away. She’s constantly down looking lately, and I want to help….I can tell she want’s me to leave, and usually I do because I don’t want to make it too awkward for her. All I want to do is help one of my best friend’s in their time of distress, but I don’t know how. I don’t want to drift away more, and loose her for good…
It sounds as if your friend is in need of some serious help. I would consider going to the Guidance Office and expressing your concern for her. As friends we cannot always help others, but we can get them the help they need. Always try to be there when she needs you. Talk to her and show her that you aren’t going anywhere and that you’re a true friend.
Anonymous asked: i have major depression and its like a huge battle everyday and i've been fighting with my parents nonstop and my friends have started to leave me behind because of my depression and everyone is putting to much pressure at me because of the depression and i cant take it anymore and dont know what to do anymore.
Depression is something that many people have to deal with. I know that right know it seems tough but it’s something that you must overcome. With the help of your real friends and your family you accomplish many things you thought impossible. As for the other friends if they are leaving you behind then they aren’t worth your time. Maybe you should talk it out with your parents, keep communication open so they aren’t behind. Your parents can help you get what you need to get through this.
Anonymous Asked: I’ve begun to feel awful about myself lately.I’m not skinny at all in fact i’m the complete opposite and no one makes fun of me anymore well at least to my face but my family makes comments abut my weight i feel ugly all the time and i hate coming to school because i feel ugly every day and i don’t want to get made fun of i’ve gone through that my whole life my sister is gorgeous and im the ugly duckling im constantly being compared to her which makes me feel even worse.i just want to feel ok but here lately it seems like that is impossible i just got over feeling bad about my self and wanting to disappear and now all this is happening
You should confront your family about how they put you down. It isn’t right and you should never feel that way about yourself. If you need someone to talk to you can talk to a trusted adult in the school such as a Guidance Councilor or Youth Service Center Director. If you are contemplating suicide I would recommend calling 1-800-273-TALK. Remember: Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Anonymous asked: I have a huge problem. I let people walk all over me and I don't even try to stop it. I just smile and keep pushing through the bullcrap. I told my best friend that I liked this one guy a few weeks ago. She is now flirting with him. I suspected that she was so I asked, she lied to my face and told another friend that she likes him and everything. It's crazy, and I found out that that certain guy likes her. I knew that she would get him in the end. It just upsets me that I let it happen. Help me
If you informed your friend about liking a guy then she shouldn’t have done what she did. But sometimes people can’t help who they like. She should have been straight with you. Maybe you should just talk to her about it. I know that it is tough, but you have to hold your own ground. Fight back and fight for what you believe in. Don’t let people walk all over you.
Anonymous asked: i've been suffering from major depression since 7th grade and for the past month my own friends are starting to turn on me. my best friend is going around school say i just want attention but i dont want attention i just want friends who actually care about me and who will actually try to help me. what should i do?
Well you could start by choosing a new group of friends to be around. Ones who actually care and won’t treat you badly. As for the ones you call friends, they aren’t your true friends. You should think about your friendship with them lies. If you are needing anyone to talk to you should stop by the Guidance Office or Youth Service Center.
Anonymous asked: What do you do when your life is terrible, and you feel as if everyone hates you and calls you names and you just want to end it all?
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Although it’s seems as if times are getting hard, life can only get better from here. It’s only high school, so don’t sweat the small stuff. As for the name calling, just push it aside and ignore it. If you feel as if you are going to harm yourself call 1-800-273-TALK. Always remember suicide is NEVER the answer.
Anonymous asked: What do you do, when you listned to a person that lied to you about your best friend's, and you finally dropped that person to help thing's a little, but they still act as if they hate you, and they act all awkward? I feel as if I have lost everything, and I have nothing left. I'm all alone. What do I do?
This person doesn’t seem very sincere. You shouldn’t listen to their drama, it’s only high school. As for the lies about your best friends you know the truth, so don’t let it come between you all. Remember it’s only high school, this is the time where you find out who your true friends are. None of this will seem as important after you graduate.
